Words Have Power(watch what you say)

I never realized how powreful words colud be. I have always been that person who never really thought of what I say would hurt. Most of the time I don't think before I speak and then words come out and they end up hurting someone.
Last Wednesday I was atCariboo for a potluck and I had said something to someone not knowing that I had hurt her by what was said. I thought I was commenting her but it come out the wrong way and I felt so bad because it hurt her. I said something about a song she wrote but i had meant it in a nice way but come out as me being mean. She told me that I need to watch what I say because I could really hurt someone by what I say. At the end of the night I come up to her before I left and told her how sorry I was for what I had said to her. She said thank you and that she wasn't offened by what I sadi just that she was trying to help me and for that I am thankful. Karyn I am so sorry for what was said to you. I am going to do my best to speak encoruaging words olny from now on.
I learnt from my mistakes and an working on being that person God wants me to be. There's a saying that has been running in my head and that is What Would Jesus Do. From now 0n before I say anything I am going to think of that saying because it is so powerful to me.
Lately have been forgetting that God is a great healer. I have been losing faith in what I believe and in God and his healing power. I have seen all the healing he has done in other peoples lives but I have been doubting him.
Words do have power.
I have not been living my life as a christian should be because of so situations that have been going on in my life right now and I have been questioning why dose God allow all this to happen. Isn't he suppoes to be our father and love us. I don't understand why he dose allow all this crap to happen